My generation will, on average, spend 4–6 times more hours on their phones than with their children or parents. And I believe the lost hours aren’t even the biggest consequence. Here are 2 far more significant, but also more nuanced impacts that our phones and social media have on our lives:
- Creation of micro bubbles and lack of common ground for society - Remember when everyone watched the same movies on Friday nights? Same TV shows, same news, same cultural moments we could all reference? This was a common ground to start a conversation with everyone, common ground for our society. That world is gone. Now we each inhabit our own algorithmic universe. Our feeds are so hyper-personalized that if one person one person is into flying fishes, he might thing it is the “biggest topic in the world” as flying fishes will be 50% of of his instagram content. If someone is into serious murders story he might think that psychopaths lurk around every corner. These micro-bubbles don't just filter what we see-they fundamentally distort our sense of what matters.
- Polarization - Short-form video apps have basically turned into radicalization engines. The more controversial the video the more shares, comments, and that precious dopamine it generates. The mathematics of engagement inevitably pushes us toward the edges. You watch one political video, and suddenly your feed becomes a pipeline of increasingly extreme content from that same perspective. Opposition viewpoints? A flick of your thumb dismisses them in milliseconds and we stay reaffirming our believes. 0 debate, 0 opposite viewpoints. We all know it, politicians know it - the only way to stay visible is to live on the edges of the spectrum. We’ve already seen the first consequences in politics, but more is coming…
- Isolation - Scrolling is, by nature, something we do alone. Unlike watching a movie with a partner or going out with friends, your feed is designed just for you - which makes it most enjoyable in solitude. We all get 20 reels from our friends and parents but lets be honest, we dont care about them. We prefer our own feeds. We will choose to spend 30% of our free time on them alone.
- The Decline of Third Places - Thirty years ago, even if someone was introverted, they still had to leave the house - to go to work, shop for groceries, eat at a restaurant, or visit the cinema to avoid boredom. We used to rely on these “third places” (cafes, restaurants, shops) to meet our basic needs but these outings forced us into thousands of small interactions with other people. Most of them didn’t matter much, but they taught us social skills. And once in a thousand encounters, you might meet someone similar to you - someone who could become a friend or even a partner. Phones made it more convenient. Enabled some to live their lives without ever stepping outside their front door. The phones become out “third place”. We can see this difference clearly in older generations, who still engage in small conversations everywhere: at shops, in queues, almost anywhere. We are loosing these skill as we are staring at out screens. (I’m not saying this affects everyone equally - cafés are still full. But there is a growing group of young people (especially men) who unknowingly spend their 20s in isolation. And yet, our 20s are a crucial time for building social skills.)
- Dopamine & Serotonin imbalance - we often forget that dopamine isn't actually the "happiness hormone/neurotransmitter”. It's the "wanting hormone" - it motivates us to seek something we think will make us happy. Historically our cycle was simple:
- Walking through a forest and spotting a clearing full of mushrooms or berries ⇒ dopamine boost motivation to seek
- Eating the berries ⇒ Storm of Hormones and Neurotransmitters ****(endorphins, oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin)
- Satisfaction, fulfillment, contentment while resting after the meal- serotonin release
Short-form content breaks this cycle - we get constant dopamine (wanting/seeking) but almost zero serotonin (satisfaction/fulfillment). It's pure tension and craving with no resolution. After hours of scrolling, you feel empty and unsatisfied - not because the content was bad, but because your brain never got the "completion" signal it was expecting.
It’s not that all content only stimulates the dopamine system. The real issue is that platforms promote the kind of content that does - because it keeps us on their apps the longest.
We can see this pattern across every consumer domain:
- Tinder dominates dating.
- Temu dominates shopping.
- TikTok dominates social media.
We're essentially rewarding companies for creating the most neurologically addictive products possible.
- Attention span decline - The impact of phones on our attention span is obvious. Picking up that little device 150+ times a day takes a toll on our ability to focus and be productive. What’s less obvious is how constant hits of dopamine from scrolling reduce the satisfaction we feel from everything else in life. Many of us already struggle to stay engaged while watching a movie - something that used to be one of the most stimulating, high-dopamine activities. When your brain gets used to instant highs, everyday real experiences will just feel way less rewarding.
- Elevated expectations - Charlie Munger once said: “The best way to be happy is to have low expectations.” Great minds think alike - similar ideas were expressed by the ancient Stoics as well as Naval Ravikant. And yet, the majority of us still fall into the trap of constantly wanting more, fueled by what we see on social media. In my home country, Poland inequality today is far lower than in the 1990s. But scroll long enough through billionaires content , and it feels bigger than ever.
- Less time in nature/working out - nothing to add here
When we combine these two forces, we get a dangerously powerful mix we should all be aware of. I’ll soon share 6 more, less obvious consequences of short-form content on our lives.
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